Ashton Kutcher Allegedly Cheated On Demi Moore Because He Wants A Family, Says Expert!

Relationship expert Steve Ward explains why Ashton may be acting out — and advises Demi what to do if she suspects Ashton is cheating!

Ashton Kutcher, 33, is 15 years younger than his wife Demi Moore, 48 – and it’s their massive age gap that may have lead him to allegedly sleep with 23-year-old Sara Leal. Ashton could be seeking validation from younger women, master matchmaker Steve Ward, host of VH1′s Tough Love, tells HollywoodLife.com exclusively. He may even want to start a family of his own!
“The fact that Demi is significantly older than Ashton only contributes to his propensity to or desire to want to get validation from younger women,” explains Steve. “My guess is that they [Ashton and Demi] tried having a family together. The tried having children. Her children are Bruce Willis‘ children. They are not his children. I think he really wants to start a family himself and that’s probably what lead him to act out.”
Steve can see why a girl like Sara might be appealing to Ashton. She has “nice perky fake boobs,” says Steve. “Kind of looks like an extortionist.”
But cheating isn’t the right way for Ashton to end his marriage.
“There is a right way to end a relationship and being unfaithful is just your way of getting caught,” reveals Steve. “It’s a cowardly way to end a relationship because what you’re hoping is that the person is going to end it for you. That way, it makes it a lot easier to move on if you’re not the one walking away.”
Steve also finds it odd that Ashton and Demi weren’t together on their Sept. 24 wedding anniversary — the day he allegedly cheated with Sara in San Diego while Demi was in NYC. “If they were having a healthy marriage, he could have very easily chartered a jet and gone to New York and been there for her,” shares Steve.
Steve’s best advice to Demi: “If she’s determined that he has cheated on her, for self-respect alone, she needs to divorce him and move on.”

Four naked women, vodka on tap and a hot tub: Fresh details emerge of 'debauched night Ashton Kutcher cheated on wife Demi Moore with Sara Leal'

By Amelia Proud

Last updated at 4:36 AM on 3rd October 2011

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Ashton Kutcher yelled for vodka as he languished naked in a hot tub with four similarly bare young women, according to a witness present at the actor's lavish San Diego hotel suite on the night he is alleged to have cheated on wife Demi Moore.
The 33-year-old actor should've been preparing to celebrate his sixth wedding anniversary with Moore, 48.
But instead he enjoyed the company of 23-year-old Texan Sara Leal, with whom he is alleged to have had sex that night in his suite.

Regret: Kutcher looked sombre yesterday as he left the Warner Brothers lot in Hollywood in his Lexus

Party pad: The Diamond Suite at the Hard Rock Hotel in San Diego, where Ashton Kutcher partied on the 23rd September

Jacques Du Toit, a South African yacht worker, described the sordid scene at the £2,500-a-night ‘top of the rock’ Diamond Suite at the Hard Rock Hotel, to a friend.
Du Toit told close friend Gavin Naumoff, 23 , how he hot-footed to the 1,200 sq ft suite, which features an outdoor jacuzzi, after his girlfriend told him she was attending a party in Kutcher's suite on September 23rd.
'He was concerned,' explained party promoter Naumoff to the Mail on Sunday.

Party girl: Sara Leal poses with a friend in a bikini top

'Jacques is the boyfriend of one of the girls partying with Sara that night, Alexis. He wanted to make sure she was behaving herself.'

But The Mail revealed that it was the pretty blonde from small town McAllen in Texas, who stayed behind that night, before going on to uncover the humble origins that propelled her into the seedy set-up with the married millionaire.
Naumoff recalled the scene that night as Du Toit painted it: 'Alexis told him Ashton’s room number and when he got there, a bodyguard was at the door who said it was a private party. Jacques explained he was the boyfriend of one of the girls and was let in.
‘He found Ashton in a hot tub on the balcony with Alexis, Sara, a girl called Katie and another girl called Marta. They were all naked. Ashton invited Jacques to join them in the tub.

Debauchery: according to a witness, Ashton was calling for vodka inside his lavish suite that night

The bedroom: This is where Ashton will have laid his head that night, on the 12th floor of the complex

Room with a view: From the main lounge area you can see out to the terrace where the hot tub action is said to have taken place

Apparently, Ashton said, 'Yo, where’s the vodka at?' and Jacques was like, ‘'It’s over there but I’m not going to get it.' So Ashton gets out to get the vodka and that’s when Jacques saw he was butt naked.’

The alleged sexual encounter took place that night after everyone except Sara and her friend Marta had left.
‘Sara is telling everyone 100 per cent that she and Ashton had sex,’ claimed Naumoff.
‘Jacques and Alexis are two of my best friends and Sara is a good friend. If she says she slept with him then I think she’s telling the truth.’

Party girl: Sara Leal knows what she wants according to friends, and loves to have a wild time

Naumoff, who arranges for good looking girls to be shipped to certain hotspots,  also told the newspaper: 'Sara’s a great girl. My job is to round up hot girls and bus them into clubs in San Diego or Vegas.
The girls get free booze, food, whatever, and they attract rich and famous guys to the clubs. It’s a two-way street. The girls get to meet rich men and the guys get what they want.’
Which is? ‘Sex, obviously.’
Pointing proudly to photographs he took recently of a topless Leal, he bragged: ‘She was off her head, we all were. She’s a wild girl and loves to party. She is someone who knows what she wants and is determined to get it.’
Another friend, this time from her schooldays in McAllen, on the border of Mexico in Texas, said that Sara 'hoped to find a richer older guy to take care of her. She wasn’t great at anything in particular that would have enabled her to make it on her own. But she was good at looking good.'
Leal is yet to speak out publicly about the alleged incident but she has already retained a high powered attorney.  He has so far declined to respond to any media calls about his client.
She is reportedly letting it be known that she won't 'spill the beans' on Kutcher for less than $250,000, but is hoping she will receive a similar offer from Kutcher to fade away.
Naumoff explained how earlier in the evening, the Two and a Half Men star selected girls at Fluxx nightclub : 'Ashton was picking out girls who were 'hot tub worthy or not.' He would send his friends to hand-pick the prettiest girls from the dancefloor.’
The club’s promoter, Aaron Klose, said: ‘I saw Ashton dancing with several girls, including Sara. Fluxx has the reputation for only allowing the prettiest ones in. Ashton was clearly up for a good night.’
Katie Boggus, a friend of Leal’s from Texas, who allegedly took part in the hot tub high jinks, refused to be drawn on the subject when approached at her San Diego home late Friday by the Mail on Sunday.
The pretty blonde said: ‘Sara is a great person. It’s really sad people are saying mean things about her.’
When asked directly if Leal slept with Kutcher that night, she said: ‘I can’t talk about that.’ Asked about being in the hot tub with a naked Kutcher, she smiled and said: ‘I’m sorry, I can’t say anything about that.’
According to another girlfriend of Leal, she is ‘keeping low’.

Painful times: Ashton and Demi both arrived at the Kabbalah centre in LA on Friday to celebrate Rosh Hashannah

Arm in arm: Ashton pictured with Demi back in May at an event in Los Angeles

Report: Ashton Kutcher Rated Girls as 'Hot Tub Worthy or Not'

Submitted by Michael Allen on Oct 2, 2011

Reports say that Ashton Kutcher was rating girls as "hot tub worthy or not" during that infamous night out in San Diego on the weekend of his sixth wedding anniversary.

Within hours of the reported hot-tub encounter, Sara Leal would allege that the evening ended in sex Kutcher, prompting speculation that one of the entertainment industry’s most improbable May to December romances is over.
One of her Leal's friends, party promoter Gavin Naumoff, 23, told the Daily Mail: "Sara’s a great girl. My job is to round up hot girls and bus them into clubs in San Diego or Vegas. The girls get free booze, food, whatever, and they attract rich and famous guys to the clubs. It’s a two-way street. The girls get to meet rich men and the guys get what they want."

Pointing proudly to photographs he took recently of a topless Leal, he bragged: "She was off her head, we all were. She’s a wild girl and loves to party. She is someone who knows what she wants and is determined to get it."
However, her Leal's father Arturo described her as "innocent" to the Daily Mail: "I have no comment on what’s going on except that she’s a wonderful girl, an innocent girl, and I don’t like the way people are talking about her."
But one of her closest childhood friends, who asked not to be named, said: "I wouldn’t be surprised if it is true. She was always a party girl who wanted to get out of McAllen."
"From the time we were in high school, I think she hoped to find a richer older guy to take care of her. She wasn’t great at anything in particular that would have enabled her to make it on her own. But she was good at looking good. She dyed her brunette hair blonde and wore risque clothes."

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